Diamond Vibrators for your Valentine

January 27, 2012 — loveologyu

Diamonds are a girl’s best friend with benefits, so sweep your lover off her feet by giving her a stylish waterproof vibrator with diamonds on Valentine’s Day. Evolved’s Diamond Edition Vibrators are trimmed with rhinestones and surefire way to add sparkle to your sex life. Choose the Lustre from this collection to take advantage of the curved shape – an added gem for G-spot stimulation! Treat her like a Princess by giving her the Evolved Diamond Princess Vibrator for ecstasy-inducing foreplay or leave it with her for those special “alone time” orgasms or give her the elegant Black Diamond with crystals Vibrator as the perfect precious gift for under $30.00.

Available at: http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/clit-vibrators/sp-evolved-diamond-princess-vibrator-15260.aspx

If your budget is higher and you want to give her a scintillating vibrator that will last forever, The Little Platinum Eternity Vibrator with 28 diamonds for $3,250.00 by Jimmyjane may be a memorable Valentines gift that will leave her breathless. It’s elegant, perfectly discreet – and the quietest vibrator available. Heat in warm water to soothe, or chill it in the fridge for a treat on a warm summer day. Make it rechargeable with an eco-friendly, rechargeable battery  and see this vibrator in 24k gold. Available at: http://www.jimmyjane.com/shop/littleplatinumeternity-p-61.html

The most extravagant luxury sex toy is a white gold dildo that was created by a Paris jeweler for the woman who has everything! It is available in various sizes and comes apart to release the ring studded with 117 diamonds, which can be worn separately. Jean-Francois Tokars, manager at Maison Victor in the city’s exclusive Place Vendome square, said: “It was designed for rich people who want to declare their love in a special way.” So, if you have $60,000 to spend on a diamond-encrusted sex toy, you can afford to go to Paris to purchase it as it is not available online.

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Year of the Sexy Dragon

January 23, 2012 — loveologyu

It’s no surprise that dragons are everywhere, since this is the year of the dragon and it’s filled with good fortune, according to the Chinese Zodiac. You’ll find dragons on clothing, jewelry, candles, statues, furniture, lamps, swords, goblets, and even sex toys. So, make it your good fortune to discover some sexy ways to celebrate the Chinese New Year and your sexual health at the same time with some of these fun sex toys and positions.

The best dragon sex toys I found by far are by Bad-Dragon.com, which has quickly grown to become the most popular fantasy adult toy manufacturer in the world. With an array of beautifully molded dragon dildos, dragon vagina and dragon tongue, they have received worldwide recognition for its attention to detail, high quality products, and exotic designs, which can be customized for you the consumer.

Oral Delights – The Dragon Tongue by Bad-Dragon

Imagine a dragon’s tongue with it’s sleek curves and soft, pliable ridges gently exploring your most intimate parts, squirming as much as the tongue it is modeled after, measuring nine usable inching long and tapering from half an inch to three inches wide, the dragon’s tongue is suited to new and advanced users alike. http://goo.gl/Lb4Hu

For Men, Enter The Dragon – Penis Sleeve by Blush Novelties

Slip this sleeve over your tool for an unforgettable experience. The head and body of the dragon is meticulously hand sculpted. Ticklers on the belly of the dragon enhance sensations for your partner. Use the strap to cinch your scrotum to aid in delaying ejaculation. The strong stretchy material is skin safe and phthalates free. One size fits most. http://goo.gl/fQDkk

For Ladies, The Magic Dragon – Clitoral Tickler by Pipedream

Hold this little dragon against the clitoris, choose the amount of vibration and get ready to enter magic kingdom of sexual delight! It’s powerful yet quiet and has a unique design for endless array of erotic pleasures. Use it on yourself or with a lover and expand your sexual horizons. http://goo.gl/2gGzy

For a BiGasm – Sophia’s Magical Dragon Vibrator by California Exotics

A powerful slim line design with four rows of reverse rotating metal beads and a magical dragon will give you the ride of your life. Sophia’s Magical Dragon has adjustable speeds, waterproof design, and stimulating functions. Press the arrow keys on the LED-lit control pad and enjoy three speeds of vibration in the dragon-shaped clitoral stimulator, and three speeds of whirling beads in the center of the shaft for internal and external pleasure simultaneously. http://goo.gl/iHqpm

For Any Erogenous Zone – Pleasure Dragon Vibrator by Ailv

This cute little dragon vibe has long ears to wrap around the clitoris and will deliver vibration to both of its sides. The control pack allows adjusting the speed remotely from gentle to very powerful. The bullet also can be used alone on any erogenous zone from nipples to anus. http://goo.gl/c43Z9

For Couples – The Dragon Sex Position

If sex toys are not your game, try a new sex position that was published in Cosmo and goes like this: Lie on your stomach with your arms raised above your head. With a pillow or two placed under your pubic bone, spread your legs slightly. Have your partner stretch his body over your and enter you, mimicking the position that you’re in. Instead of fast from-behind thrusting, this steamy stance requires a circular, swirling motion. Read more: The Dragon Sex Position – Cosmopolitan

May this year of the dragon make all your wishes come true, including your sexy ones.

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The Art of Pleasure

January 16, 2012 — loveologyu

We are all searching for pleasure to avoid pain. We want to prolong pleasure so that it is not just a momentary feeling that comes from external gratification. Here are ten ways to tap into the art of pleasure and experience positive energy from inner and outer sources.

1. Identify all that gives you pleasure and prioritize a list of pleasures. How many pleasures do you have?

2. Give yourself permission to surrender to selected pleasures every single day. What is your chosen pleasure today?

3. Take responsibility for your own pleasure, don’t wait for someone to give it to you. What pleasure can you give yourself?

4. Love and accept the way you look, think and feel. What compliments and rewards are you going to give yourself?

5. Get into a juicy frame of mind through all of your senses. How are you going to heighten each of your senses?

6. Unleash your pleasure power: 50% via body language, 40% via sound, and 10% via action. How do you want to be perceived? Conceive it, believe it and you will achieve it!

7. Set emotional, physical and sexual boundaries that establishes your comfort zone. Write down your limits and deal breakers. Expand the boundaries that you want to explore.

8. Ignite your passions to light your partners fire. When you are turned on, your partner will get even more aroused.

9. Turn your lover into putty in your hands. Please your lover by pleasing yourself at the same time.

10. Empower yourself and you can handle anything! Tap into a positive pleasure experience through all your senses and you will look confident and powerful!

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Celebrity Break-Up Lessons

January 8, 2012 — loveologyu

Why do celebrity couples get married to each other when the odds are stacked up against them? From power struggles to jealousy, inflated egos to insecure hang-ups, many celebrity marriages do not have happy endings like a Hallmark movie. Here are four valuable lessons we can learn from some notable Hollywood divorces.

1. Clashing Egos

Certainly when a talented Actress wins an Oscar for Best Actress, her husband had better be damn secure if he is not in the limelight. Sandra Bullock, Hilary Swank, Reese Witherspoon and Kate Winslet all got divorced after winning the acclaimed award. None of these women should be married to another celebrity who is insecure, jealous, egotistical, competitive and feels entitled to cheat when he is unsatisfied in their relationship. They need a proud, supportive, successful, sympathetic partner with high esteem who they respect.

2. Distance Detachment

Long distance relationships don’t make for successful marriages, especially when the celebrity’s sex life is unfulfilled. There is always ample temptation to cheat and when horny, even celebs don’t think about the disastrous consequences. Actress Demi Moor and Actor Ashton Kutcher’s marriage failed when he fell prey to infidelity, even though they dated for two years before they got married. Many people blame the 16-year age difference, but I think the worship of their mutual celebrity impacted the destruction of their relationship.

3. Opposites Don’t Last

Opposites may attract initially, but they don’t always make for a long lasting relationship, especially in the case of British Actor Russell Brand and American pop star, Katy Perry who were only married for 14-months.  He was a recovered hard partying heroin and sex addict and she was an all American daughter of an ultra religious upbringing by Evangelists Church minsters.  It didn’t take long before they both realized they had totally different lifestyles with different taste in different things. They didn’t even like each others friends and they didn’t want to live in the same country. Perhaps they should have discussed their differences before they wed.

4. Power Struggles

A recipe for an unhappy marriage is when one successful celebrity tries to dominate the other without their approval. This may be evident in the relationship between Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony, an equally hot and talented couple that looked like the perfect family with their twins. Everyone was rooting for their marriage to work, but these two strong personalities may have found the constant struggle for power impacting their love life and even the raising of their children. Now they are competing as they have both moved on with younger lovers.

Watch me talk about J. Lo and Marc’s power struggle on Access Hollywood.
http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/DrAvaPages/nbc-accesshollywood-20120105.html

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New Year’s Relationship Resolutions for 2012

December 31, 2011 — loveologyu

You know you want your relationship to keep getting better, you want to grow together not apart and the best way to accomplish that is by setting some New Year’s Resolutions that are guaranteed to improve your communication, enhance romance, increase intimacy and expand your sexual horizons.

Here are 10 Relationship Resolutions that I know will make your relationship even better.

  1. Set a Romance Goal – Hold hands, kiss daily, make time for make-out sessions at least 3 times a week and take turns initiating romantic dates such as candlelight dinners, movie night or romantic surprises.
  2. Set an Intimacy Goal – Listen to each other, be emotionally supportive, share your feelings and make love with eyes open at least 2 times a week. Be tender, compassionate, supportive and unselfish to make your partner feel loved.
  3. Set a Communication Goal –Ask your partner how you can be a better spouse or lover. Praise your partner often, give him or her a compliment every day, listen more, argue less, verbalize appreciation more and criticize less.
  4. Set a Collaboration Goal – Spend quality time together by doing things you both enjoy. Learn a new hobby together, take dance classes, Loveology online classes, cooking, yoga, camping, painting or volunteering for a charity together.
  5. Set Habit Changing Goal – Make a pact to help each other lose weight, stop smoking, procrastinating, being messy, lazy, grumpy or any other bad habit where you can support each other to quit. Keep each other accountable with reminders of the benefits to changing bad habits and give each other some fun rewards.
  6. Set Fun Goal – Play indoor and outdoor games like you did when you were kids. From hide and seek to pillow fighting, from playing on the park swings to camping in the woods, be silly and playful to put the fun back into your relationship.
  7. Set Intention Goal – Write a couples mission statement and include where you see your relationship in one year. Then frame it in and put it in a prominent place as a reminder of your shared relationship mission.
  8. Set Improvement Goal – Change something about yourself to make your relationship even better.  For example, make an effort to dress up and greet your partner with a kiss after work, learn how to give a sensual massage or just get a fashion makeover. Do something to build your confidence and improve your relationship at the same time.
  9. Set Forgiveness Goal – Let go of past hurts, open up your heart and let love in with a fresh New Year’s start. Tell people who have hurt and disappointed you that you forgive them. Write a forgiveness letter to yourself for allowing someone to hurt you or write a letter to someone you resent.
  10.  Set Happiness Goal – Know what makes you happy individually and as a couple. Then live your life to the fullest by doing the things that make you happy, whether it’s eating ice cream, watching funny movies, being pampered at a spa or cuddling with your partner.

Be realistic when setting your New Years Relationship Resolutions. The reality is that a consistently successful relationship takes compromise and commitment.

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Twixmas Celebrations

December 26, 2011 — loveologyu

Christmas is over, so treat yourself and unwind by enjoying the break between Christmas and New Year, known as Twixmas. Relax and regain your energy during the quieter period between the two holidays before the partying of New Year begins.

Here are 10 things you can do at Twixmax.

  1. Turn all of your leftovers into a delicious picnic. Enjoy it at home, take it to the park, the beach or to a friend’s home and revel in the variety of festive foods.
  2. Get the whole family to help you write thank you cards for gifts and greetings you received, so you get them out of the way before 2012.
  3. Read a good book from beginning to end.
  4. Create a vision board with images that depict how you want to live your life for the next 12 months.
  5. Organize all your photos and revisit favorite memories with your lover, family and friends.
  6. Go to a relaxing destination for a couple of days to enjoy the post-Christmas lull.
  7. Start exercising by walking, doing yoga, skipping, swimming or just doing sit ups while watching TV.
  8. Break out the board games and play with the whole family. If romance is your intention, sex them up by changing the rules. Monopoly can be sexy when you play naked and if you land on “Go to Jail” then your lover handcuffs you while making love to you.
  9. Clean out your closet and give everything to charity that you haven’t worn for two years or more.
  10. Stay in bed, watch movies or sports and relax. If you feel guilty about not being productive, take your laptop to bed. Get food delivered so you don’t have to do dishes. Finally, make love to your partner or pleasure yourself to celebrate love and intimacy.

Twixmas can stretch your festive celebrations until New Year or it can be the break you need to recoup from family commitments between festivities.

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Gift Something Sexy

December 21, 2011 — loveologyu

If you still haven’t finished shopping and you want to impress your lover, here are some memorable gift ideas that will likely lead to a romantic connection, sensual experience or even an exciting erotic escape.

Personalized Calendar

Create your own custom photo calendar with personalized dates on wall and poster calendars with captions to remember birthdays, anniversaries, and special events. Start your 12- or 18- month calendar in any month of the year to create a one-of-a-kind photo calendar you can enjoy all year. Available at: http://www.snapfish.com

Massage Candles

Much more than aromatherapy candles, these melt down into warm oil so you can cover your lover’s body and give him or her a sensual heated massage. Alternatively, you can cover your own body in the warm candle oil, then climb on top of your lover and massage them using your body in up and down, side to side and circular motions. Available at: www.skinnydipcandle.com 

Dr. Ava’s Guide to Oral Sex for Couples

If you are interested in improving your oral sex skills or want your lover to learn some new fun techniques, this 3 disc, 3 hour instructional erotica DVD is the gift that will give back. You’ll reach new levels of pleasure by watching over 90 explicit demonstrations of fellatio and cunnilingus positions, games and tips guaranteed to make you an oral sexpert. Available at http://www.discreet-romance.com

The FingO Glow

These fun finger vibrator’s have everything you need for the ultimate erotic encounter with 3 styled fingertip textures and 3 fun colors that fits comfortably on the underside of the finger. With just one touch, toes curl and bodies tingle with ease before, during and even after sex to titillate all of your senses. Available at www.thescreamingo.com

The Book of Kink by Eva Christina

This book goes beyond the Missionary exploring everything from kinky equipment, sex classes, sex parties, and porn to the who, what, where, when, why, and how of kink, it delves into fetishes, turn-ons, role-playing, and how the Internet has put a new spin on kinkiness. Take turns reading chapters to each other and act out your kinkiest fantasies together. Available at: www.Amazon.com

The We-Vibe 3

This unique sex toy can be worn while making love so that you and your lover can experience simultaneous orgasms. The We-Vibe 3 brings 40% more enjoyment power, a remote and a wireless charging base to the same compact comfortable design as the We-Vibe II. Let the dual stimulation zones take the vibe to satisfying new heights of mutual pleasure for both of you. Available in 3 colors at: http://shop-usa.we-vibe.com/

 

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Please Your Lover with Sexy Stocking Stuffers

December 12, 2011 — loveologyu

Here are some of my favorite gifts that maybe small, but they have a powerful kick to add more sizzle and spice to your love life. From vibrating rings to erotic edibles and beautifully illustrated lovemaking cards, there is something to please your lover this holiday season.

Promise Finger Ring

The Waterproof Promise Finger Ring is more than just a vibrator; it symbolizes a commitment to bring you sensational pleasure time and time again. Just slide the ring on to whichever finger it feels most comfortable, click the button to select your favorite of the five functions and find the speed that drives you wild as you explore all your hot spots. Use the smooth round head to caress yourself or your lover in the shower, the tub or while lounging around comfortably. This compact massager is always faithful when it comes to making you climax, whether you’ve been naughty or nice. Available from Amazon http://is.gd/Wglo2e

Tasty Wear

Get a sexy holiday treat with a ready filled stocking complete with a penis lollipop, a feather tickler, sexy favor coupon book, naughty scratch & win ticket, bedroom dice game and nipple gloss.  For him it is filled with favor coupon book, scratch & win ticket, bedroom dice game, feather tickler, candy cock ring and a booby lollipop. If naughty edibles is more your style, surprise your lover with some candy cuffs that you can nibble off their wrist or how about some edible undies, Stretchy candy penis-rings, nipple tassels or even a sweet candy whip? All of these and erotic chocolate pussies, breasts, butts and penises are available at www.chocolatefantasies.com

Ancient Chinese Sexual Position Cards

These 50 exquisitely illustrated 5 in x 7 cards are based on ancient Chinese medical texts with images and descriptions of sensuality, intimacy, and sexuality. For example, The TORTOISE MOUNTS shows the woman lying on her back, bending her knees while the man pushes her feet. His Jade Stalk inserted, he pleasures her with both deep and shallow thrusts until her body shakes and lifts, and her emission fluid erupts. Holiday Special: buy 1 set of cards and get 2nd and 3rd Free. Available at: http://sexualshaman.com/purchase.html

The Screaming O

The Screaming O Vibrating Penis Ring is an award winning, top-selling revolutionary disposable couples-friendly adult toy that enhances the ability for both partners to achieve incredible orgasms…together. The thimble-sized vibrator is attached to a soft gel ring that slips over the penis and condom, providing the added benefit of anchoring the condom from slipping off. By the way, it stretches to fit any size man. For the woman, the vibrating bullet adds extra stimulation onto her clitoris during penetration. It’s waterproof, so you can use it in the shower or tub. It even comes with batteries installed, so it is ready right out of the package, but be sure to figure out how to turn the vibrator on before you start making love.  Available from Amazon http://is.gd/ugyN2i

 

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Love Swings

December 4, 2011 — loveologyu

There are various kinds of love swings and having one in your home can definitely make sex more exciting so you and your lover can experience airborne positions and in-air oral sex. A love swing is very good for lovers with height and weight differences because you are free of your lover’s weight on you. It can also be beneficial for people with limited physical movements ranging from from arthritis to spinal injuries.

Imagine sitting on a sex swing, putting your feet in the stirrups and swinging back and forth while your partner makes passionate oral love to you. Or straddling your lover while he sits in the swing with your feet in the stirrups as you hold on to the support bar to give you leverage for the G-spot, U-spot, or A-spot orgasms.

You can experience hands-free sexual positions face down for doggy or anal entry or face up and suspended in the swing spinning at 360 degrees.

Some love swings hang from the ceiling or a doorway while others have a portable stand. You want to get a sturdy swing that can hold up to 800lbs just in case you want to have a love swing party so all your friends can have fun trying it out.

Below are six different kinds of swings that are available, so check them out, talk to your partner and decide if a love swing is something that can enhance your sex life.

  1. There is a luxury Love Swing that comes with 3 spreader bars, a swivel and trapeze bar for about $250 dollars at loveswing.com which looks amazing, but it does take up a lot of space.
  2. Topco has a Love Swing for $121.00 at Amazon.com that holds 200 pounds when using the spring, and it holds up to 400 if you choose to not use the spring. The spring doesn’t make much of a different except it allows you to bounce up and down a bit.
  3. The Trinity Sex Swing is available at Amazon.com for $70.00 and it appears to be a bargain.
  4. The Spinning Sex Swing can turn 360 degrees and can hold up to 300 lbs. from bettersex.com
  5. The Fetish Fantasy Sex Swing is $159 and has some fetish attachments at AdamandEve.com.
  6. The Sportsheets swing is portable and fits on the door jam for just $69.00 from AdamandEve.com
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Sexy Stocking Stuffer

November 27, 2011 — loveologyu

A great way to maintain playfulness in your relationship is to have more fun together in the bedroom. Explore new activities and create some intimate games for more variety. Add a few adult toys to the mix and they can help avoid predictable sex while intensifying eroticism for you both.  Here are three sex toys that are discreet and make for a great stocking stuffer.

Texas Showdown

Line up that deck of cards for a showdown Texas style. Challenge your partner to a nude heads up game of Texas Hold ‘Em and start with equal amounts of chips and keep raising the stakes to get high enough to go all in. The winner not only gets bragging rights, but a nice orgasm too with one of Evolved’s Bottle Rocket vibrators, waterproof, whisper-quiet with powerful vibrations you can use on the mons, labia, clitoris, penis, testes or anus. See the video at the bottom of this blog.

Sexy-Cises

This game is win-win for both of you as you exercise the vaginal muscles during penetration. The goal is to see how many reps the woman can can do before the man climaxes. To get the vaginal muscles in shape, warm up with some Kegel toys by inserting exercise balls that does the vaginal calisthenics for you. The Fun Factory makes a popular brand called Smart Balls with different textures and colors and Hustler toys makes the Dare Devils self-vibrating weighted vaginal balls. The kids will never know what they are if you leave them out.

Hide & Thrill

The game is to time how long it takes to find your lover hiding from you. The finder gets to wear an oral vibrator on their tongue and then give oral sex for the same amount of time, so the longer the better. First step is to slip a Screaming O tongue vibe right over your tongue for a super sexy sensation that your lover won’t soon forget as you lick him/her to orgasmic bliss.

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