POSTED ON: Aug 16 2010 •
One of the latest growing trends in sex is Power Play. Students, secretaries, customer service reps, maybe even your relatives or your boss could be Masters, Mistresses and or Slaves behind closed doors.
I think everyone is into Power Play on some level. Guys, when you give your lover a slap on the butt and she asks you to do it harder, that’s S & M. And, ladies, when you’re climaxing and you dig your fingernails into his back, that’s S & M too. Do you enjoy that extra nipple stimulation, so rough that it has to hurt just a little to feel good? Well, if so then that’s S & M again. How about when he tells you all those nasty things he wants to do to you? And don’t you feel a little humiliated when he calls you a dirty whore or a slut during sex? That’s B & D. When you blindfold your lover and tease him or her with sexual anticipation, it’s all a form of B & D.
If you’ve ever been in any of these common situations, then you are into some form of Power Play and you may be a perfect candidate to expand your sexual horizons.
Household items lend themselves to spontaneity among beginners. Take clothespins for instance, they’re not just for the laundry, but highly effective for clamping nipples, testicles, the clitoris and stretching the labia.
A spatula can make for a great paddle and scarves or necktie’s can also be used to tie up or be tied down with. But a word of caution should be mentioned here, especially as these kinds of activities can get out of hand, so safe code words are very important. Use the words Red, Yellow and Green. The reason for this is, when fantasies are being acted out, the slave will often say ‘Stop’ when she/he really means ‘Go’. By using code words that mean the same thing – like Red for Stop, Yellow for Slow Down or Green for Go, both Master and Slave can reach the same understanding without disturbing the fantasy.
For more fun and erotic Power Play activities, take an illustrated course with a video at: