Make Your New Year’s Resolutions

POSTED ON: Dec 26 2010  • 
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Here’s a little tidbit on that ancient ritual we all look forward to every year known as the New Year’s Resolutions. It began in 153 B.C. when the Romans named the first month of the year after Janus, the dual-faced God of Beginnings. He is the symbol for resolutions because he could look backward and forward at the same time. Don’t you wish that we could do that? Well, we can look backward and learn from our life lessons. We can look forward by making committed resolutions a priority in our lives.

Always make your New Years Resolutions positive action steps for change. Plan, accomplish and then reward yourself when you have completed them. Make at least one to improve your health, your work and your social life. Below are some suggestions for each category to help you make the most realistic resolutions for next year.

Health –

1.     Improve your overall health and fitness by committing to some kind of exercise every day, whether it’s walking, swimming, yoga, stretching or even dancing.  The benefits of regular exercise will help to make you feel and look healthier.

2.     Eat breakfast like a King, lunch like a Prince and dinner like a Pauper to help tame the bulge. The key to success is eating less and less as the day ends and your metabolism slows down before you go to bed. Listen to a Weight Loss Hypnosis CD at: http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/Cart.aspx

3.     Quite smoking or drinking too much and increase your life’s longevity. Even if you’ve tried to kick the habit before, maybe you were not ready. Now if you can conceive it, and believe it, then you will achieve it. Listen to a Stop Smoking Hypnosis CD at: http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/Cart.aspx

Work –

1.     Reduce your debt and reduce your stress level at the same time by budgeting your income, prioritizing essentials and cutting down on unnecessary luxury goods.

2.     Learn something to enhance your current job or help you to make a career change. Take a certified online course at www.loveologyuniversity.com to enrich your love life, read books, watch videos or attend a class and meet like-minded people.

3.     Get organized so that you reduce clutter in your life and you will find that you are more efficient once you know where everything can be found. Also, get rid of things you don’t need or haven’t used in years.

Social Life –

1.     Make a commitment to spend quality time on a regular basis with friends and family. Regular good conversation with loved ones can make your life a happier and more fulfilling one.

2.     Help others less fortunate than yourself by investing your social time to volunteer with projects on mentoring, building, creating or donating things you no longer need.

3.     Fall in love with yourself and treat you as if you are madly in love with you. Accept yourself just the way that you are and then you will be ready to fall in love with someone new or fall back in love with your current partner.

To fulfill your resolutions, visualize the end result of each one and tap into the emotional feelings that you will get from accomplishing them. Turn your New Year’s Resolutions into life-changing goals.

May all your wishes come true for a passionate, prosperous and pleasurable New Year!

Gifts for Your Lover

POSTED ON: Dec 24 2010  • 

Have you ever dreaded special occasions because you feel pressured into buying a memorable gift for someone you care about? As a sexologist, I understand the challenges of buying something that is unique enough to make it unforgettable. Of course I’m expected to come up with creative, fun and nontraditional ideas all the time and I love giving impressive gifts, so I’d like to share some of my favorite gifts of love with you. Forget about chocolates, fragrances, ties and gift certificates. Memorable gift giving can be easy, especially when it’s a gift that benefits both of you.

Fill up a jar or box with love notes or fantasies. Make a personal video telling your lover all the things that you love about him or her. Give your lover a customized trophy or award proclaiming them as the best lover of all time. Take a photo of the favorite part of your anatomy and give it to your lover in a special little frame. Once you get your creative juices flowing, the thought of giving sexy gifts will be easy.

Supercharge your love life with JO MASSAGE GLIDES, the number one bedroom essential. You’ll up the excitement of going from sensual massage to sexual intimacy with unscented JO SENSUAL GLIDE, scented JO LAVENDER or JO CITRUS and JO WARMING MASSAGE GLIDE a surefire way to reach your happy ending and the most precious gift you can give your lover.

The Shotgun Shell Massager from Evolved makes a perfect bedroom or travel companion that offers powerful multi-speeds, in or out of water. It’s also a unique adult stocking stuffer or anytime little gift that will be unforgettable.

Evolved’s revolutionary waterproof Silicone Line of Love Toys can make your holiday bath or shower time a memorable one. Whether you choose the stylish Waterproof Silicone Desire, Silky G, Bliss, Seduction or Delight, you will experience maximum intensity with minimum noise.

The We-Vibe vibrator can be worn during lovemaking with it’s unique design and can stimulate the Clitoris and G-spot at the same time.   It will take you into a magical and memorable pleasure zone that may enable you to reach simultaneous orgasms with your lover.

Take Liberator® bedroom adventure gear can turn bland sex into gourmet sex.  These custom engineered shapes can elevate and angle your way into a plethora of new sexual positions. With the help of the Liberator® Wedge, Ramp, Stage, Cube and Scoop, lovers feel comfortable and relaxed as they create unlimited positions and possibilities for love.

As an added surprise, give your lover a copy of the 4th Century Hindu manual, The Kama Sutra, which contains 529 lovemaking positions. Add bookmarks to the positions you want to try.

Let me know if you have some unique gifts that you’ve given or received so that we can share them with lovers who need a little inspiration. Remember that the gift of love is the most precious of all.

My Top 10 Secrets to Success

POSTED ON: Dec 22 2010  • 
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I have been a businesswoman for over a decade with a passion to succeed and I’ve learned some valuable lessons along the way that I’d like to share with you, especially if you have a business or you are thinking of working for yourself. My intentions are to empower you to reach your business goals while balancing your personal life. It’s been an inspirational journey for me that continues to surprise me when I least expect it, so even if you only get one new snippet of information from my Top 10 Secrets to Success, it will be worthwhile and if you’d like to share your secrets to success, I would be grateful.

Lesson 1. Mind + Body + Heart connection = Success. The mind and body are inextricably linked together and when they work as one, you are energized and focused on what you want to accomplish. Now add your heart into the mix and you have the emotional attachment to fend off any obstacles that may come your way.

2. Choose a business that you would want to run even if you didn’t get paid. Imagine if you didn’t need money to survive, what would be your purpose in life and the meaning within you?  Your answer is your life’s mission, so express your purpose and you will attract it with abundance.

3.     It’s nice to be important, but it’s more important to be nice. There is nothing more important than your reputation and integrity, so treat everyone with respect, be honest and kind. People will inherently treat you the same way that you treat them.

4.     Enjoy signing checks, whether it’s for salaries, bills or taxes.  Operate from a consciousness of wealth because the more checks you write, the more money you are capable of making.  So, be just as grateful when you write checks as you are when you receive checks.

5.     Mentor others and share your knowledge with people who have the same passion as you. The more you give, the more you get back, so don’t be afraid of competitors because there is room for everyone to succeed.

6.     Give incentives and rewards to your employees, acknowledge, appreciate and validate them for the work that they do for you. Most importantly, give yourself the same rewards for your own achievements big and small.

7. Negotiate to achieve win-win as opposed to trying to make the other party lose. Take the time to understand what the other party needs and find a way to structure your deal so that everyone is happy and feels valued. This is how to create long term relationships.

8.     Collaborate; more heads are better than one and there’s no better way to get the creative juices flowing than to share ideas, encourage constructive criticism and don’t be afraid to delegate tasks because you can’t do everything on your own.

9. Make time for romance and intimacy. There is a direct correlation to success in business and success in love. Relationship satisfaction and business satisfaction actually feed each other, so the more passion you have at home, the more passion you’ll have at work.

10. Take risks to reach your ultimate goal. That means knowing what your ultimate goal is and how you are going to execute it. Write it down in great detail as if you were writing a business plan with a beginning, middle and an end, but add the emotional rewards that you will gain from accomplishing your goal. Now list all of the risks you can think of below your goal and ask yourself, “What do I have to lose if I take these risks and what do I have to gain?” See which list is the longest, strongest and most compelling for you and act accordingly.