Role-playing is healthy, fun and natural for couples of any orientation and it can rekindle passion, boost intimacy, is an exciting avenue of escape, opens you up to new activities and can turn a predictable love life into adult play.
Below are five fun role-playing characters for men plus five for women to choose from. Gather as many accessories as you can for your fantasy…remember, the more props you have, the easier it will be to get into your character. Of course you may not have some specific props such as a shield for the Gladiator, but you can invent one by using a tray. The Dominatrix needs a paddle, but you can use a spatula for spanking just as well. If you don’t have a mask, use a scarf, if you don’t have toy weapons, try plastic cutlery. Use your imagination and improvise to make your role-playing fantasy character come alive. Even more important than accessories is your attitude and body language to help you get into the act, so pretend that you love being your chosen character by thinking, feeling and doing the things that this character would do to their lover.
Gladiator
Accessories: Anything in mesh, silver or black, vest, torn T-shirt, shield, plastic sword or safe weapon.
Vampire
Accessories: Black pants, button down shirt, long black cape or jacket, white gloves, black shoes, cane, top hat, medallion, fangs and a glass of red wine.
Rock Star
Accessories: Leather or tight pants, t-shirt, vest, boots, microphone, bandanna, any musical instrument.
Pirate
Accessories: Baggy pants, vest, shirt, wide belt, boots, eye patch, bandanna, scarf, hat, plastic skull, flask, mug, toy hook, flag, treasure chest, jewels.
Cowboy
Accessories: Cowboy hat, boots, jeans, button down shirt, vest, chaps, bandanna, lasso, toy guns, ranger mask.
Female Police Officer
Accessories: Black stockings, shorts, tight blouse, handcuffs, sunglasses, badge and hat.
Nurse
Accessories: White thigh-highs, tight white button down top, gloves, probing examination tools and stethoscope.
Devil Woman
Accessories: Wear something red and tight, choker, high heals or boots, pitch fork, devil horns and devil tail.
French Maid
Accessories: Fishnet stockings, high heels, short skirt, apron, tight blouse, feather duster, a tray of your lovers favorite treats.
Dominatrix
Accessories: Black leather, latex, or satin clothes, gloves, scarf, blindfold, whip, paddle or belt.
When couples role play together and act out each others fantasies, they gain a better understanding of what the other wants, needs, desires and fears. Couples can improve their communication, take their relationship to a higher level of intimacy and expand their sexual horizons.
