New Year’s Relationship Resolutions for 2012

December 31, 2011 — loveologyu

You know you want your relationship to keep getting better, you want to grow together not apart and the best way to accomplish that is by setting some New Year’s Resolutions that are guaranteed to improve your communication, enhance romance, increase intimacy and expand your sexual horizons.

Here are 10 Relationship Resolutions that I know will make your relationship even better.

  1. Set a Romance Goal – Hold hands, kiss daily, make time for make-out sessions at least 3 times a week and take turns initiating romantic dates such as candlelight dinners, movie night or romantic surprises.
  2. Set an Intimacy Goal – Listen to each other, be emotionally supportive, share your feelings and make love with eyes open at least 2 times a week. Be tender, compassionate, supportive and unselfish to make your partner feel loved.
  3. Set a Communication Goal –Ask your partner how you can be a better spouse or lover. Praise your partner often, give him or her a compliment every day, listen more, argue less, verbalize appreciation more and criticize less.
  4. Set a Collaboration Goal – Spend quality time together by doing things you both enjoy. Learn a new hobby together, take dance classes, Loveology online classes, cooking, yoga, camping, painting or volunteering for a charity together.
  5. Set Habit Changing Goal – Make a pact to help each other lose weight, stop smoking, procrastinating, being messy, lazy, grumpy or any other bad habit where you can support each other to quit. Keep each other accountable with reminders of the benefits to changing bad habits and give each other some fun rewards.
  6. Set Fun Goal – Play indoor and outdoor games like you did when you were kids. From hide and seek to pillow fighting, from playing on the park swings to camping in the woods, be silly and playful to put the fun back into your relationship.
  7. Set Intention Goal – Write a couples mission statement and include where you see your relationship in one year. Then frame it in and put it in a prominent place as a reminder of your shared relationship mission.
  8. Set Improvement Goal – Change something about yourself to make your relationship even better.  For example, make an effort to dress up and greet your partner with a kiss after work, learn how to give a sensual massage or just get a fashion makeover. Do something to build your confidence and improve your relationship at the same time.
  9. Set Forgiveness Goal – Let go of past hurts, open up your heart and let love in with a fresh New Year’s start. Tell people who have hurt and disappointed you that you forgive them. Write a forgiveness letter to yourself for allowing someone to hurt you or write a letter to someone you resent.
  10.  Set Happiness Goal – Know what makes you happy individually and as a couple. Then live your life to the fullest by doing the things that make you happy, whether it’s eating ice cream, watching funny movies, being pampered at a spa or cuddling with your partner.

Be realistic when setting your New Years Relationship Resolutions. The reality is that a consistently successful relationship takes compromise and commitment.

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Twixmas Celebrations

December 26, 2011 — loveologyu

Christmas is over, so treat yourself and unwind by enjoying the break between Christmas and New Year, known as Twixmas. Relax and regain your energy during the quieter period between the two holidays before the partying of New Year begins.

Here are 10 things you can do at Twixmax.

  1. Turn all of your leftovers into a delicious picnic. Enjoy it at home, take it to the park, the beach or to a friend’s home and revel in the variety of festive foods.
  2. Get the whole family to help you write thank you cards for gifts and greetings you received, so you get them out of the way before 2012.
  3. Read a good book from beginning to end.
  4. Create a vision board with images that depict how you want to live your life for the next 12 months.
  5. Organize all your photos and revisit favorite memories with your lover, family and friends.
  6. Go to a relaxing destination for a couple of days to enjoy the post-Christmas lull.
  7. Start exercising by walking, doing yoga, skipping, swimming or just doing sit ups while watching TV.
  8. Break out the board games and play with the whole family. If romance is your intention, sex them up by changing the rules. Monopoly can be sexy when you play naked and if you land on “Go to Jail” then your lover handcuffs you while making love to you.
  9. Clean out your closet and give everything to charity that you haven’t worn for two years or more.
  10. Stay in bed, watch movies or sports and relax. If you feel guilty about not being productive, take your laptop to bed. Get food delivered so you don’t have to do dishes. Finally, make love to your partner or pleasure yourself to celebrate love and intimacy.

Twixmas can stretch your festive celebrations until New Year or it can be the break you need to recoup from family commitments between festivities.

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Gift Something Sexy

December 21, 2011 — loveologyu

If you still haven’t finished shopping and you want to impress your lover, here are some memorable gift ideas that will likely lead to a romantic connection, sensual experience or even an exciting erotic escape.

Personalized Calendar

Create your own custom photo calendar with personalized dates on wall and poster calendars with captions to remember birthdays, anniversaries, and special events. Start your 12- or 18- month calendar in any month of the year to create a one-of-a-kind photo calendar you can enjoy all year. Available at: http://www.snapfish.com

Massage Candles

Much more than aromatherapy candles, these melt down into warm oil so you can cover your lover’s body and give him or her a sensual heated massage. Alternatively, you can cover your own body in the warm candle oil, then climb on top of your lover and massage them using your body in up and down, side to side and circular motions. Available at: www.skinnydipcandle.com 

Dr. Ava’s Guide to Oral Sex for Couples

If you are interested in improving your oral sex skills or want your lover to learn some new fun techniques, this 3 disc, 3 hour instructional erotica DVD is the gift that will give back. You’ll reach new levels of pleasure by watching over 90 explicit demonstrations of fellatio and cunnilingus positions, games and tips guaranteed to make you an oral sexpert. Available at http://www.discreet-romance.com

The FingO Glow

These fun finger vibrator’s have everything you need for the ultimate erotic encounter with 3 styled fingertip textures and 3 fun colors that fits comfortably on the underside of the finger. With just one touch, toes curl and bodies tingle with ease before, during and even after sex to titillate all of your senses. Available at www.thescreamingo.com

The Book of Kink by Eva Christina

This book goes beyond the Missionary exploring everything from kinky equipment, sex classes, sex parties, and porn to the who, what, where, when, why, and how of kink, it delves into fetishes, turn-ons, role-playing, and how the Internet has put a new spin on kinkiness. Take turns reading chapters to each other and act out your kinkiest fantasies together. Available at: www.Amazon.com

The We-Vibe 3

This unique sex toy can be worn while making love so that you and your lover can experience simultaneous orgasms. The We-Vibe 3 brings 40% more enjoyment power, a remote and a wireless charging base to the same compact comfortable design as the We-Vibe II. Let the dual stimulation zones take the vibe to satisfying new heights of mutual pleasure for both of you. Available in 3 colors at: http://shop-usa.we-vibe.com/

 

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Please Your Lover with Sexy Stocking Stuffers

December 12, 2011 — loveologyu

Here are some of my favorite gifts that maybe small, but they have a powerful kick to add more sizzle and spice to your love life. From vibrating rings to erotic edibles and beautifully illustrated lovemaking cards, there is something to please your lover this holiday season.

Promise Finger Ring

The Waterproof Promise Finger Ring is more than just a vibrator; it symbolizes a commitment to bring you sensational pleasure time and time again. Just slide the ring on to whichever finger it feels most comfortable, click the button to select your favorite of the five functions and find the speed that drives you wild as you explore all your hot spots. Use the smooth round head to caress yourself or your lover in the shower, the tub or while lounging around comfortably. This compact massager is always faithful when it comes to making you climax, whether you’ve been naughty or nice. Available from Amazon http://is.gd/Wglo2e

Tasty Wear

Get a sexy holiday treat with a ready filled stocking complete with a penis lollipop, a feather tickler, sexy favor coupon book, naughty scratch & win ticket, bedroom dice game and nipple gloss.  For him it is filled with favor coupon book, scratch & win ticket, bedroom dice game, feather tickler, candy cock ring and a booby lollipop. If naughty edibles is more your style, surprise your lover with some candy cuffs that you can nibble off their wrist or how about some edible undies, Stretchy candy penis-rings, nipple tassels or even a sweet candy whip? All of these and erotic chocolate pussies, breasts, butts and penises are available at www.chocolatefantasies.com

Ancient Chinese Sexual Position Cards

These 50 exquisitely illustrated 5 in x 7 cards are based on ancient Chinese medical texts with images and descriptions of sensuality, intimacy, and sexuality. For example, The TORTOISE MOUNTS shows the woman lying on her back, bending her knees while the man pushes her feet. His Jade Stalk inserted, he pleasures her with both deep and shallow thrusts until her body shakes and lifts, and her emission fluid erupts. Holiday Special: buy 1 set of cards and get 2nd and 3rd Free. Available at: http://sexualshaman.com/purchase.html

The Screaming O

The Screaming O Vibrating Penis Ring is an award winning, top-selling revolutionary disposable couples-friendly adult toy that enhances the ability for both partners to achieve incredible orgasms…together. The thimble-sized vibrator is attached to a soft gel ring that slips over the penis and condom, providing the added benefit of anchoring the condom from slipping off. By the way, it stretches to fit any size man. For the woman, the vibrating bullet adds extra stimulation onto her clitoris during penetration. It’s waterproof, so you can use it in the shower or tub. It even comes with batteries installed, so it is ready right out of the package, but be sure to figure out how to turn the vibrator on before you start making love.  Available from Amazon http://is.gd/ugyN2i

 

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Love Swings

December 4, 2011 — loveologyu

There are various kinds of love swings and having one in your home can definitely make sex more exciting so you and your lover can experience airborne positions and in-air oral sex. A love swing is very good for lovers with height and weight differences because you are free of your lover’s weight on you. It can also be beneficial for people with limited physical movements ranging from from arthritis to spinal injuries.

Imagine sitting on a sex swing, putting your feet in the stirrups and swinging back and forth while your partner makes passionate oral love to you. Or straddling your lover while he sits in the swing with your feet in the stirrups as you hold on to the support bar to give you leverage for the G-spot, U-spot, or A-spot orgasms.

You can experience hands-free sexual positions face down for doggy or anal entry or face up and suspended in the swing spinning at 360 degrees.

Some love swings hang from the ceiling or a doorway while others have a portable stand. You want to get a sturdy swing that can hold up to 800lbs just in case you want to have a love swing party so all your friends can have fun trying it out.

Below are six different kinds of swings that are available, so check them out, talk to your partner and decide if a love swing is something that can enhance your sex life.

  1. There is a luxury Love Swing that comes with 3 spreader bars, a swivel and trapeze bar for about $250 dollars at loveswing.com which looks amazing, but it does take up a lot of space.
  2. Topco has a Love Swing for $121.00 at Amazon.com that holds 200 pounds when using the spring, and it holds up to 400 if you choose to not use the spring. The spring doesn’t make much of a different except it allows you to bounce up and down a bit.
  3. The Trinity Sex Swing is available at Amazon.com for $70.00 and it appears to be a bargain.
  4. The Spinning Sex Swing can turn 360 degrees and can hold up to 300 lbs. from bettersex.com
  5. The Fetish Fantasy Sex Swing is $159 and has some fetish attachments at AdamandEve.com.
  6. The Sportsheets swing is portable and fits on the door jam for just $69.00 from AdamandEve.com
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