Are You a Voyeur or an Exhibitionist?

POSTED ON: Oct 12 2010  • 

Do you get turned on by being watched or do you get aroused watching others perform for you? One way to find out is to take a seat in front of your lover and slowly take your clothes off while playing with your body to pleasure yourself. Make sure your lover sees that you are getting sexier by the second and encourage him or her to do the same as you share the intimacies of mutual pleasuring. You may find that you enjoy being both a voyeur and an exhibitionist.

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How to Touch your Man

POSTED ON: May 04 2010  • 

When it comes to most men, do they crave a particular type of touch? I’ve found that men want more pressure, excitement, spontaneity and creative planning with special focus on their penis.

One of my favorite male touch techniques is called Making Fire. Place the shaft of his penis between the palms of your hands. Move one hand forward and the other backward. His penis is like the stick you twist in your hands on a piece of flint to ignite a fire. Start out slowly and gently, but then speed up your rhythm as he gets more aroused. Make sure to use plenty of oil or lube for this technique such as System Jo Sensual Solutions. Wetter is better!

For some more memorable penis moments, rub it between your fingers, your toes, thighs, butt cheeks, armpit, and even behind your semi-bent knee.

Of course men do enjoy being touched on other parts of their body, so run your fingernails over his pecks, lick his nipples, brush your cheek over his chest hair, pinch his butt, blow your breath on the nape of his neck and nibble gently on his ear lobes.

Then make sure he does the same for you.