If you don’t ask, you won’t get. Would you ask for your steak to be cooked the way you want it or take a chance on ruining a good piece of meat? Would you tell your lover how you take your coffee the first time she or he makes you breakfast in bed or just grin and bear it?
Maybe you’re already getting it good, but you’ll get it even better if you make a point of asking for something specific you want, such as a French Kiss, Oral Sex or Doggie Style because it sets you on sexual fire. You’ll be satisfied and your lover will be relieved they don’t have to try to read your mind, plus they’ll be psyched by how turned on you are getting.
So next time you’re with your lover, ask for one thing that you really want in a flattering way such as, “I love it when you kiss my nipples, it would be amazing if you gently bit them because it really turns me on.” Be as specific as possible so you won’t have to constantly correct them.
Or if you are too inhibited to ask for what you really want, slowly guide your lover’s hand or mouth to your most erotic erogenous zones and let them know that they are on target with some pleasurable moans and groans to encourage them.
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