Is Oral Sex More Intimate than Intercourse?

POSTED ON: Jun 03 2010  • 

If you had to choose out of only having oral sex or intercourse, which would it be and why?

I believe oral sex is one of the most highly erotic, loving and satisfying sexual activities you can indulge in, but is it more intimate than sexual intercourse?

We all know that receiving oral sex can be intensely pleasurable for men, but women crave it just as much because of the direct clitoral stimulation that enables them to reach orgasm more quickly than during intercourse. That’s why some women view oral sex as a main dish and find it more intimate than intercourse.

Giving oral sex can be just as satisfying as getting it, especially if you know you’re good at it and have a responsive partner.

If you want to make oral sex more fun, add variety by changing positions and locations such as doing it in Doggie style half way up the stairs.

For more heightened pleasure, use System JO H2O Flavorings line of lubes. Apply the Chocolate Delight, Strawberry Kiss or Tropical Passion lube on your erogenous pride and joy and let your lover enjoy the fancy flavors without any after taste.

There’s nothing wrong with making sex a bargaining chip in your relationship. If you give me a full body massage once a week, I’ll give you a morning quickie and a BJ three times a week.   Now that’s a game where everybody wins.

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10 Steps to Becoming a Great Lover

POSTED ON: May 12 2010  • 

Here are 10 tips on how to be a great, memorable lover who will be appreciated, desired, admired, wanted, needed and loved. Just follow these steps and you’ll go down in history as one of the world’s greatest lover.

1. Talk to your lover about how you feel
(a) Tell your lover what turns you on
(b) Tell your lover what turns you off
(c) Tell your lover that he/she is making a difference in your life
(d) Tell your lover that you love them just the way they are
2. Discover your lover’s erogenous zones
(a) Giving your lover a full body massage
(b) Kissing and caressing your lover’s imperfections
(c) Ask your lover to tell you where his/her erogenous zones are located
(d) Explore every part of your lover’s body lovingly
3. Ask your lover what he/she really wants
(a) Watch your lover’s body language for approval during love-making
(b) Ask your lover during love-making, how it feels
(c) Ask your lover after love-making, how it felt
(d) Ask your lover what you can do to make love even better
4. Make your lover feel appreciated
(a) Kiss your lover when he/she gives you a gift or compliment
(b) Send your lover small gifts or cards for no particular reason
(c) Tell your lover “I love you” at unexpected times
(d) Hold your lover’s hand and show affection in public places
5. Be a considerate lover
(a) Undress your lover before making love
(b) Spend at least fifteen minutes on foreplay
(c) Allow your lover to have an orgasm first
(d) Cuddle your lover after love-making
6. Be an adventurous lover
(a) Change your favorite love-making position at least once a week
(b) Make love in different locations other than the bedroom
(c) Include sexual enhancements such as adult toys and erotic talk
(d) Surprise your lover with unexpected sexual treats
7. Be a sensitive lover
(a) Satisfy your lover sexually even when you are not in the mood
(b) Listen to your lover’s problems and comfort him/her in your arms
(c) Refrain from having sex if your lover is not in the mood
(d) Don’t criticize your lover during love-making
8. Be a confident lover
(a) Do try to look your best for your lover
(b) Do compliment your lover in front of others
(c) Do offer to make your lover’s fantasies come true
(d) Do striptease or masturbate in front of your lover
9. Be a creative lover
(a) Have phone sex with your lover
(b) Take your lover shopping to adult toy stores and lingerie shops
(c) Blindfold your lover and tease him/her with your tongue
(d) Role-play with your lover…teacher-student…biker-slut…or master-slave
10. Tell your lover what you want
(a) Share what turns you on sexually and why
(b) Share what turns you off and why
(c) Share 3 wishes that will heighten a sexual experience for you
(d) Share 3 sexual fantasies that you would like to turn into reality

Passion Play

POSTED ON: Feb 20 2010  • 

If you want to please your lover, have a more passionate way to express your needs in a fun, playful and creative way with your partner that will lead to a more fulfilling relationship, then this is for you.

Get a large blank sheet of paper and write Passion Wheel at the top, then draw a big circle in the center of the paper and divide it up into 10 parts like a pie. Take turns writing down 10 passionate activities inside your Passion Wheel, 5 for you and 5 for your partner.

Here are some hints: cuddling, kissing, caressing, role-playing, g-spot exploration, erotic talk, massage, oral, quickies and lovemaking. Once a day take turns choosing at least one new activity from your Passion Wheel to keep your relationship passionate.