What is too sexy?
The definition of sexy varies, but I think most of you would agree that there are some common qualities in a “sexy” person including confidence, playfulness, sense of humor, intelligence, compassion, generosity, happiness, talent and lets not forget power.
What images turn you on? The eyes? Hair color? Lips? Tattoos? Rock hard abs? Bubble butt, Big breasts? A little extra meat on the bones? Or really skinny? What is sexy to YOU?
When it comes to image, you don’t have to be God’s gift to the human race, but you do have to have a high self-image. Someone who is sexy needs to feel confident, believe in what they are doing and have a great Attitude with a positive outlook on life.
Are you intimidated by a girl or guy who is too hot? If so what are you afraid of? Feeling inadequate when you are with them or being jealous when they get all the attention?
Are you so hot that people are afraid to approach you for fear of rejection?
Can being that hot be a gift or a curse?
Being too sexy can be hazardous to your career…. Harvard librarian Desiree Goodwin, who holds two advanced degrees from Cornell University, Claimed that she was passed over for promotion 16 times because of her physical attractiveness. Goodwin claimed the jobs she sought were given to women with less experience and education and that a supervisor told her she was perceived as a “pretty girl” who wore “sexy outfits.”
Meanwhile in Italy, Caterina Bonci, a teacher, said she was fired from her job at a state-run school for being too sexy. How sad is it that if you flaunt your figure in a professional setting, colleagues and clients may question your judgment or make unflattering assumptions about your character.
I say, if you’ve got it flaunt it! More power to you! It hasn’t hurt sexy Paris Hilton, Pamela Anderson or Kim Kardashian. Sexy guys like Gilles Marini and Fabio Cannavaro can keep on taking it off for me because I say, “You can never be too sexy.”