Sex toys cannot replace the fulfillment a lover can provide but they can have therapeutic value by rejuvenating a predictable relationship. They can add more variety, take the pressure off performance for the man, add orgasmic intensity by stimulating her clitoris, G-spot or anus, his penis, testicles or prostate as well as bring a new element of  fun to the relationship.

Before purchasing your first sex toys, it’s wise to consider your needs and/or sit down with your lover to discuss how you both feel about this idea. For example, “I feel like sex toys will add more variety to our sex life.”

Share your concerns and sexual boundaries and respect each others views.

Below are some Sex Toy Rules:

•When you get your new sex toys, start out slow, be gentle and ask your partner for feedback as well as offering your own comments.

•Your lover cannot read your mind, so let him/her know what feels good and if something doesn’t feel good, try something else.

•This is a great opportunity to use some erotic talk to describe your experience and it can improve your communication skills, which will lead to a deeper bond and more intimate relationship.

Some good ways to introduce sex toys in a relationship are:

·      Talking about them

·      Going to a sex shop together

·      Going online to look at a variety of sex toys

·      Choosing one for each of you such as a vibrator for her, a penis or prostate stimulator for him and a vibrating cock ring for both of you

·      Bring sex toys into fantasies such as a threesome with two guys and one girl; use a dildo or vibrator for double penetration

·      Take Loveology University’s Certified Sex Toy course together at www.LoveologyUniversity.com

Here are my top 10 favorites:

1. Evolved’s Silicone Bendable Rose has a pure silicone rosebud with a bendable stem that can hold in any position to give you bud-thrilling satisfaction. It’s discreet for parents, great for a beginner, but powerful enough to impress a sex toy connoisseur.

2. Evolved’s Waterproof Promise Finger Ring and Engagement Finger Ring are perfect for the sex toy novice. They are hypo-allergenic; multifunctional, vibrating, pulsating with five powerful function massagers.

3. The Boss Cock’s Pleasure Ring is a safe, stretchy waterproof, long-lasting, powerful cock-ring with a vibrating bullet designed to stimulate the penis, testicles and clitoris all at the same time.

4. The versatile waterproof FlutterRing that stretches to fit any sized man or penetrative toy. For guys, the Fluttering can give you a harder erection and ladies; its massaging vibrations can massage all your hot spots making your orgasms feel even better.

5. Evolved’s Bendable YOU TOO is a new sex toy with dual motors and 7 functions for twice the intensity to use alone or with a partner as a romance enhancer, G-spot or Prostate stimulator.

6. Evolved’s Bendable Flexems bends to whatever position you want to ensure maximum stimulation. Soft, pliable, stylish and waterproof, the Flexems contour to your shape while its three hypnotic speeds ensure the ultimate erogenous experience.

7. The We-Vibe is a couples vibrator, worn while making love. It’s anatomical shape will fit womens internal contours and will naturally and comfortably nestle in and massage the G-Spot. The flexible We-Vibe will conform inside a woman to accommodate the shape of her vagina while making love in different positions.

8. The Screaming O is a vibrating cock ring that is disposable, lasts for 30 minutes with strong vibrations to tickle her pleasure while keeping him hard. Great for simultaneous multiple orgasms.